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June 16, 2008
By: Trina
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Over the last two decades, I’ve heard some interesting, ridiculous, strange and some sincere reasons for staying married and for getting divorced. I’ve met folks who stay married because of the kids. I’ve met folks who don’t get married because they would loose too much financially.
I’ve known single folks who really wanted to be married. They have had a strong desire for a companion which they had hoped they would find in marriage. I’ve also known single folks who were content and happy with their single lifestyle.
I’ve known married folks who really hated being married. They wish they didn’t have someone to go home to and someone to “report in” to each day. I’ve met parents who really hate being parents. They miss their days of “freedom”.
I’m thankful to love my husband. I’m thankful we are good to each other, care about each other and are supportive of each other. I’m grateful we appreciate each other, are kind to each other and truly want what is best for our marriage and life together. I’m thankful we’ve grown closer, grown together, changed and still embraced each other and we look forward to continuing to grow older together along with the changes it will bring.
I believe God has done something incredible and special in our marriage despite the fact that we do not have children in our home right now. I believe marriage CAN be a wonderful experience. I know it is worth the investment.
In a recent conversation, a young woman told me she had tried everything, even therapy and after only four months of marriage has filed for divorce. It’s a long story and there’s a lot to it. One party was not ready for marriage, one party has a really mixed up view of love, and one party has also watched too many soap operas, romantic movies and read too many romance novels. Both are selfish and do not have a balance of priorities. I have no idea if their marriage could ever make it if given a chance, but FOUR months?
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April 22, 2008
By: Trina
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By Trina Daniels
Married and looking was an appalling choice which was available as I signed up for a new networking account. Thankfully, there was a choice of married. I’m married. I’m happy. I am not looking. I think there should be a category Married and Happy, Married and Loving It or at least Married and Not Looking if the category Married and Looking is going to be offered.
I am glad to see more and more people, churches, organizations and even places on the web encouraging a healthy and happy marriage. All too often, we find ourselves living in a culture that is hostile toward marriage being a lifetime commitment between a man and a woman. We celebrate weddings and divorces almost equally. We hear about “good divorces” or even read in a marriage announcement “NOW he has the right woman” with a scripture reference.
I think marriage is a divine gift and the natural state of mankind. The first thing in creation that was not good was man’s aloneness. (Genesis 2:18, Genesis 21-25 The Message)
It’s not easy. We do not have a set of rules or comprehensive instructions. There’s not a manual to cover every situation we encounter. There’s not a way for my husband and I to be happy with each other at every moment. Our culture and our entertainment media teaches us that marriage is boring, bitter and we’re trapped. I’m tired of watching the marriages of my friends, family and acquaintances fall apart, while the latest hobby is finding unique and humorous ways to complain about our spouses.
I believe marriage is an enterprise worthy of pursuit and worthy of great investment. I will celebrate my marriage, share my joy with others and communicate things I’ve learned about being married. I hope to provide an opportunity for discussion for those who love marriage, value marriage, want to love marriage or want to be Married and Loving It! My favorite quote about marriage is by Martin Luther: “Let the wife make the husband glad to come home and let the husband make the wife sorry to see him leave” - and I’m not even Lutheran!
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August 14, 2007
By: Marty
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My wife Trina and I have been married nearly 20 years and of course each one has been a cakewalk…like every other marriage or relationship, right?It doesn’t matter if you’re an Atheist, Christian, Muslim or Oompa Lompa, if you can’t figure out how to forgive, you are destined to have a very miserable and lonely life.
Without allowing your self to forgive little things will become huge issues and ultimately that only hurts you.
- So forgive the guy who cuts you off in traffic.
- Forgive the person who screwed you over in that business deal.
- Forgive the spouse who takes you for granted…but what does that forgiveness look like?
Does it mean you let people walk all over you?
Not all…and we’ll talk about all of this tonight on Humble O Radio.
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June 21, 2007
By: Marty
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You just found one of the fastest growing LIVE INTERACTIVE TALK AND MUSIC SHOWS on the Internet.
Humble O Radio is a conversation about Christianity and Culture and the Sub-Culture of Christianity and how it all mixes together. Each week we’ll have interesting guests talking about topics as varied as the latest book, movie and music release to Theology. At some point we may talk about the theology of various books, music and movies, who knows?!?
One thing for sure, the show will be fun. Hopefully challenging and informative. No bashing those outside or inside the church just an opportunity to wonder out loud, ask about, discuss and challenge the mindset of both.
Humble O Radio gets its name from the saying “My Humble Opinion” or online “MHO” but it perfectly describes what this site is really all about. We want to hear your opinion and in kind provide ours too. It seems to have escaped our culture but it is called an exchange of ideas.
THE HOST
Marty Daniels
Marty is a Comedian who yucks it up with dozens of churches, civic groups and corporate organizations around the United States each year.
Prior going full time in Stand Up Comedy back in 02 he spent 17 years in radio in great cities around the country.
Marty is currently looking for a publisher for his two books “Individually Warped” and “The Twelve Step Program For Coffee Drinkers.” He lives in Columbus with his wife, Trina and NEDD THE WONDER PUPPY!
In his free time Marty likes to design digital artwork that pays tributes to historical figures.
THE BLOGGERS:
- Trina Daniels: Is a published writer and photographer who is currently working on her first screenplay. She is an advocate of integrated health care and is married to Marty.
She is the founder of “Dogs Reign” an upstart organization bringing together the very best information and resources for the care of your dog.
- Cathi-Lyn Dyck: Cathi-Lyn and her family live in the wildly adventurous Canadian Prairie. She is a freelance writer and editor, Master Gardener, wife and Mother who homeschools four WILD though not uncultivated children who online are identified as Spazzerific, Banana Brain, Squirrelly Girlie and Brat Boy.
She spontaneously popped into view like a little mushroom in order to share cool topics of semi-obscurity. These include things like sustainability, Christian homesteading, organic gardening, and opinionated opinions.
- Patrick Oden: Patrick has a history and theology degree from Wheaton College and a Master of Divinity from Fuller Theological Seminary. He lives, writes, runs, watches birds, and kayaks in Lake Arrowhead, California.
Patrick is the author of It’s A Dance
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- Olivia Stallings: Olivia is a single mom of two boys ages 10 and 3 who currently works as a Senior Business Analyst for the government. She is a mentor to teen youth children in her community where she is able to help them with challenging situations because of her past troubled childhood. She is a writer and enjoys writing about spirituality. She is also in the process of publishing a book titled You Are Never Alone and tells about her life journey, a struggle to overcome the trials and tribulations of rape, child neglect, abortion and just surviving.
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